Gaymer Groups unite LGBTQ+ community after devastating US election
Following last week’s US elections which saw Donald Trump re-elected to the Presidency, the outpouring of anxiety, grief and anger has been palpable on the internet and in our communities.
On the campaign trail, and in the Project 2025 document, plenty was said about rolling back rights of women, minorities, immigrants and LGBTQ+ people by Trump and the Republican Party which has led to significant concerns about what the next four years holds for American citizens who aren’t pale, male and stale.
To paraphrase VP Harris’ concession speech, we may have lost the election, but we have not lost the fight. The LGBTQIA+ movement was born out of a fight and we continue to fight for our equal rights. But remember, it’s a fight we’re winning – 80% of all Americans support LGBTQIA+ anti-discrimination laws. It’s only a small minority that use our community, especially the trans community, as a wedge issue to divide and rile up their base.
The NBC Exit Poll showed that significantly more LGBTQIA+ people voted Democrat than any other presidential cycle. Our community organized and came together in the most dramatic way.
Now LGBTQ+ media, community groups and leaders must bring the community together and be beacons of hope. Responding already to that call, Gaymer Groups from around the US have been posting messages of support for their communities and to rally the wider LGBTQ+ community into action for the fight that lies ahead.
NYC Gaymers – Instagram
Qweerty Gaymers – Instagram
Las Vegas Gaymers – Facebook
Boston Gaymers – Discord
Hey everyone,
Things feel… Not so great… And right now and probably for some time? That’ll be okay.
So many of us in different communities are grieving heavily. Whether you’re an immigrant, you’re a person of trans-experience, whether you’re a person of color, whether you’re a cis-woman—It all hurts so much and that’s okay.
We want to let You know that we’re all seeing and understanding each other, but we also want to let you know that you are loved first and foremost. In our community that we’ve worked and continue to work hard to build, You’re loved and You’re safe. Our community loves You.
It is now more important than ever to bring joy, comfort and to truly work to understand one another. There are barely words to express the gravity of this moment we are collectively experiencing. If you are feeling overwhelmed, please know that there are resources, including the image shared below if things feel to much right now. We at BG will continue to work on creating pockets of joy and reprieve and gathering.
Remember that You are worth it.
Charlotte Gaymers Network
Hey, everyone,
I know that for many of us, today feels heavy. This is a moment where it’s easy to feel disconnected, frustrated, even powerless. But in these moments, our strength comes from our community and the support we give one another. Holding onto that is essential.
Here in Charlotte and across North Carolina, we have so much to be proud of. We made decisive progress in our state, with hard-won victories for leaders who support equality, justice, and our voices. Every step forward, every local success, is a reminder of the power we hold when we come together, vote, and stay engaged.
This community is a safe space, a place to uplift and support one another. Let’s continue to celebrate our wins here, support each other through challenges, and stay connected. The work isn’t over, but we have each other. And together, we are unstoppable.
If you are struggling and need someone to chat with, my DMs are open, and I would also encourage folks who need it to check out community-resources where we have lists of mental health resources that are LGBTQ affirming.
Big big big hugs to you all,
J
SF Gaymers – Discord
To our beloved community members:
Our hearts ache over the fear, anxiety, and sorrow wrought by this past election cycle. Two days ago, the Trevor Project reported a 200% increase in election-related conversations on its crisis services hotline in the preceding 48 hours. Other Queer mental health organizations have reported similar, striking numbers, as well as surges in utilization — all tied to the election this week.
If you are feeling isolated in these hard times, always remember: The “Y” in Gaymer means YOU belong.
Now, as ever, we remain committed to the work that must be done regardless of any election outcome: to create spaces where Queer people feel safe to be themselves and to gather together in joy.
Yours in pride,
Board of Directors
SF Gaymers
Utah Gaymers – Discord
Hey everyone.
I feel like these next four years are going to be some dark 4 years unfortunately, because of who has been elected president. When it comes down to economic policies, they aren’t too different from Democratic policies, but what really matters is the scary representation that we will soon have again in the White House.
What’s more scary than the policies is what this enables many White supremacists to feel safe to do. It’s the misogyny that will ensue. So many men already are chanting “your body, my choice.” It’s absolutely revolting! What’s scary is what this means for our Trans brethren. Enough Trans people have gone missing, have said goodbye to this world, have been assaulted, etc. and more may happen under this new regime if we continue to isolate our community and not be here for one another.
Now more than ever, this community needs to grow and accept one another and protect one another as a safe space. Mourn, scream, do whatever you must within reason for now. But soon, we have to keep our heads up and be proud and strong in our own ways! You are not alone. And everything is far from over. We as a community have survived time and time again, and our biggest revolution is continuing to survive against all opposition & oppression.
We’re in this together. Thank you for letting me even get to know you guys. This is exactly why I wanted to make this community so I didn’t have to go through this alone, and you don’t have to go through this alone.
With pride,
Elijah Golpe
Utah Gaymers’ Society
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